Life is all about the choices we make, the choice to lead or be a follower both are important for maintaining ecology in the society. Nobody is a failure or success. It is subjective to the individual classification of failure or success. As we pass through different segments of life we come to the understanding nothing is good or bad it is the circumstances which make the things good or bad. If you are farmer waiting for rain, rainfall is good for you, but if you are a cricketer and the pitch gets spoiled due to rains and you lost the match it is bad for you. The gist is to cherish life as it advances.